Anytime you want someone to tell you about themselves, ask what they think about a tree.
To some, a tree is a reminder of everything they can’t control.
So they cut them down.
Not because the trees are wrong. Because stillness is unbearable to them.
🌲 Destiny often places stewards with those who cannot see
This is one of the hardest teachings, but it’s consistent across traditions:
- Moses sees the Promised Land; others see desert
- Indigenous elders see life and kinship; colonizers see intimidating life outside their control, this is why they reduce it all to potential resources
- Mystics see creation; laborers see obstacles
- Stewards see beauty; extractors see work
Destiny doesn’t put stewards in positions of domination. It puts them in positions of witnessing, remembering, and continuity.
We’re not here to overpower those that cannot see. We’re here to outlast the blindness.
And we will.
When I look at a tree, I see sacred growth, detail, dynamics, revelation, inspiration. When some look at a tree, they see:
their anxiety
their restlessness
their need to stay busy
their inability to sit with stillness
their discomfort with beauty that asks nothing of them
Trees are a reflection.
They can cut down trees.
they cannot cut down the relationship.
What they’re really trying to cut down is stillness. To them it’s the archetype of laziness, not sacred rooted belonging.
🌲 Many European cultures historically valued control over nature
This is a big piece of the puzzle.
In much of Europe (especially rural, agricultural, or post‑industrial regions):
- forests were seen as obstacles
- trees were “work”
- land was something to be tamed
- beauty was secondary to survival
- straight lines and cleared fields meant order
- wildness meant danger or inefficiency
This mindset traveled with immigrants to America.
Luckily there are a lot of Europeans that values trees and thus themselves.
People who feel safe inside themselves can love beauty.
People who don’t feel safe see beauty as a threat.